Hello, and thank you all for your replies.
The divorce experience, unfortunately, was as stressful as the marriage itself.
Yes, the Judge was a man. I wrote several letters of complaint to the Law Society and the Bar Council and even wrote a letter of complaint about the Judge's appalling attitude. There was absolutely no evidence at all of violence from me - I was the one who was put in hospital a few times, yet I was told by the Judge that I provoked violence. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I'd already paid out £5,000 for a Non Molestation Order and Occupation Order, so he knew I was the one being subjected to domestic violence. I certainly didn't pay that sort of money out just for fun.
The domestic violence officer who came to court with me was horrified at the way I was treated.
I still haven't got over the court hearings yet and it was 18 months ago, but that could be because of the stress I suffered during the marriage. It certainly hasn't helped.
I have tried to find legal advice to sue that awful solicitor, but I sent my whole file of paperwork to a solicitor in Bristol who told me I had a case then asked for £2,500 up front just to assess the case.
Thanks to the appalling work of my former solicitor I just don't have that kind of money anymore. And what's to stop that solicitor from taking that money then saying I had no case even when he said I did? I just don't trust the legal system anymore.
The only way I could think of to get this out of my system was to make that blog. My former solicitor has seen it months ago and he's not done anything about it - because he knows it's all true. He's not attempted to have it closed down and he's not sent me any threatening letters to remove it... so it'll stay put.
I think he should be named and shamed and if I can help prevent anyone else going to him and getting ripped off like I did, then that's fine by me. He says he's had 18 years of experience with domestic violence, so why belittle my experience and call my ex "A pussycat"? He made me feel like a drama queen.
I can't believe I lost my home and livelihood when all I wanted was a divorce from a scumbag husband.
Sorry for the rant
