Young again wrote:
Hi em,

This topic is very close to home for many people here, including me.

I would like to ask you something which is not accusative, judgemental or in any way meant to angtagonise you:

Why do you refer to the children as 'his'?

Thank you

YA

Because they are his! LOL! I hope he remembers that whilst hes arguing about how much maintenance he should provide!
He had sex with me twice and we produced 2 children, 2 years apart in 19 years. I carried them for 9 months had dreadful medical problems during the pregnancy and 2 awful births. My eldest is autistic and I bore the burden of almost all the heartache and organisation associated with this with little or no support. Thats what I gave to HIM and got nothing in return.