Hi new to site..Hubby left me six months ago..Does not love me anymore.We have a six year old son together..He his an airline pilot and i do not work..I did work but due to the stress i thought he could keep me for a while i have no support or family around me..I am so angry he has only just become an airline pilot two years ago and now dumped me.. I have always worked and supported him through his carrer. now hit the big time off he goes.. Top this all off i was forty two weeks ago he his only thirty five thinh hes dumped me for a younger model..Anyway sorry for going on i have been in such a state. he has now handed me a financial statement off his solicitor and said ineed to fill it in! is this a joke! i dont have any income and he pays all the bills whats he up to! any advice please

Hi there
welcome to wiki
sit tight and offers of support and help will come flooding in .
am so sorry youre in this position now , its so hard to think straight when emotions are so raw.
People here will advise , but sounds like you should look to booking a free half hour with a solicitor . Lots of solicitors offer this and you dont have to sign up for anything more . You can also get lots of information here on this site . When you have more knowledge about your rights you will feel stronger.
Dont let him bully you by calling all the shots.
Take care

Hi,

Have you received his divorce petition yet?

Unless he has started Ancillary Relief through the courts, any financial disclosure on your part is purely voluntary.

That said, it is better to provide this information, but I suggest you request his to be handed over at the same time as you give him yours.

You will have to agree a financial settlement sooner or later. Does he pay you any child maintenance?

Are you claiming all the benefits that you are en­title­d to? Does he pay the bills directly or give the money to you to pay them, this is all relevent, at least as far as benefits go.

You will find plenty of support and advice on wiki, so make us your friends and family.

Why not come into the chatroom and get some help and support.

Take care.

xx Sarah xx