Hi All

Well what a w/e I have had!!

Went to see the children ended up argueing with my ex and he got the police involved cos he siad I was threatening him!!! After all those years he has abused me physically and mentally how dare he? Anyway can't say too much on here only that he is still harrassing me with phone calls.

My soliciotr is fully aware. All because he still won't agree with the oredrs the court have made at the final hearing. He won't accept it. Even now. I thought he would get over it but no he is getting worse - even his father has abused me and my family mentally.

Glad I'm nothing to do with him. On top of this just had my op at hospital. So feeling poorly. Having to be stronger now than ever it's Bloody Hard!
I will get there!! I can't beleive he is still persisting when I din't end up with a huge settlement? It was very fair and he has actually done very well out of it too. I just wish he would get on with life and leave me alone.

Love to you all
Mollyx

Hi Molly

Sorry to hear you had a bad weekend. Quick question though. Can't the Police stop him making these calls to your phone? I'm sure I've heard before that you can get some sort of restraining order on him to stop this.

Hope your feeling better soon.
BRM

Hi

Yes need to change my number another thing on my 'To Do' List!!!
And I could get a court order to stop him hassling me..
Love
Mollyx

It's a shame he feels the need to continue being so bitter. Hopefully with time he & his family will get bored of being a pain in the arse.

Take care Molly

Sounds like he hasn't accepted it is all over. Strange but true. He's probably being burying his head in the sand and in denial for all this time.

I'd perhaps try and have a word with him with regard to your lives together and make him see that it wasn't all bad but it wasn't perfect and it just wasn't want you wanted or still want. Ask him to try and move on and understand that it is about 2 people that got it wrong and were completely incompatible. Don't attach blame or aggravate and perhaps have someone with you but out of earshot if things get out of hand.

I know that you've had a rough ride and you have every right to want a divorce but sometimes a bloke just wants to hear some words of encouragement no matter how much of an idiot they have been. Of course after you've got what you want then………………….

Yes unbelievable after all the final hearing and the court orders. He is still persisting and hassling me.

Hopefully as you say in time he may be better. I hope so BRM.

Mollyx

Yes I agree Scooby - don't think he will ever accept it - but I have al ife too and he must realise that instead of persistently hassling me. Everytime I see him he just lays accusations and insults my way - so best advice is to avoid him. He has a girl-freind anyway so he should be concentrating on her - not me. He is just so.... bitter.

Its sad it can't be amicable I wish it was - but that's the way it is.

Mollyx