Hello Fleur, I'm sure my stbxs woman has seen his true colours now, hes an ogre in drink & very abusive, physically & verbally, he doesnt now when to stop drinking either once he starts, it can go on for 3 or 4 days! I'm well rid aren't i? Funny how i only missed him for all the nice things about him, but now that i'm mostly over him I remember all the bad stuff too. If his woman dumps him then i definately won't be waiting to take him back! I could never go back to that life now, his leaving me has given me time to think & open my eyes!!
Thanks again for your reply, take care,
Cindy