Jenny, be sure your husband will change back to his former ways, they always do, nobody can change a leopards spots! You will have the last laugh one day when you hear hes treating her like he did you, he wont be able to keep the Nr nice guy up for long.
Stay strong girl
Cindy

Hi Jenny,

I so feel for you. I too had problems with my STBX regarding the OW. He wanted to take my children aged 8 & 12 on holiday with her only 9 weeks after he left. I said NO. All sorts of abuse went on because of it. My husband just walked out and wanted to play happy families with the OW and his children... minus me.

It makes you feel ill. I felt desperate and helpless, but they are just BASTARDS and they thing of no one but themseles. My husband thougth I was totally unreasonable. I have had to fight all the way to stop her being near my children. I managed to do this for 8 months. then he took me to court.

I too am struggling and it has been 10 months. I cannot offer any good advice unfortunately. Times are hard. I am still trying to come to terms with the fact he really does not give a damn about me. That in itself is enough to deal with.

... big hug from me

CandyW