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I am afraid Amanda (DL) will not be answering any posts for the time being ...
Here is my (non-legal) take on it.
Unfortunately the costs question is no longer what it used to be - ie that if the courts ordred a settlement in line with an offer previously made then costs would be awarded against the party who refused to settle. The only way costs can be awarded now is if there has been litigation misconduct. There have been various posts on costs - do have a search for them.
I would always suggest that an offer made at or before FDR takes into account the potential cost of going to a Final Hearing - ie you may be prepared to offer a few K more to save the £15k or so it can cost to get to a fully repped FH.
This is not a fair situation; it seems totally wrong that an unreasonable stbx can force you through the courts in this way - but that is how it is at the moment

. It does seem that the prospect of having costs awarded against a party who refuses to settle despite being made reasonable offers would be a deterrent. Unfortunately the only people who win in a situation like this are the lawyers - even the good guys (like DL) who really do not want to take your money in such circumstances but have no option if you are being forced all the way to a FH... as I, and many others on here are.
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