
How do I go about starting to plan what I need and want out of my settlement? Should I ask for more, because I know some will be taken away or reduced! I really want to express my housing needs and that I'm on a low wage at the moment. My ex has a grt career and has high income, but he still wants 50% of the married home, but he wants to keep his pension funds and his flat!! He has not made any allowances for me to support myself and our two sons aged 15/18 yrs old. Where do I start?