hadenoughnow wrote:
In the event our collective legal bills are close on 50k. And for what?

Understand that you might be too busy swimming in champagne right now; but when you have a mo' - maybe do a post for Court Outcomes thread. So many people ask about Costs; and I'm always banging on about costs outweighing settlement. Maybe people like your ex will read and take note.

Congrats again. I'm not sure what's more approriate to your ­link­: 'Our House' or...

...'Madness'! (That bit for him)

LOL Sera!

Hadn't spotted that amusing juxtaposition!

I will, when I have finished sorting out the admin calls to get the ball rolling on transfers etc, write the full unexpurgated version... and blog it with a tag if that is the most sensible thing.

Thinking about all this ... signing the papers to transfer the endowment to him is going to hurt me a LOT less than signing the papers to transfer the house to me will do for him.

Funny thing is I have actually paid for BOTH for the past 12 years. At least now anything I pay will be for my benefit .. and the children's .

Hadenoughnow

Judge was right - you are an impressive lady!

And name change should be to 'doneenoughnow'

Congrats
RX

I have jusst read your news. Well done. Have a wonderful future!
Cyres

"Impressive lady" !!

Woweeeeee if it were me I would milk that one for months

Well done for getting through it all and being an inspiration to those of us just starting out.

poppy
x

If the judge says to me "impressive lady" I'll have to check what clothes I put on for the FH. Those clothes are for weekends only!!!

Well done girl, and have a great party (for the rest of your free life).

Enjoy
BRM

Ahhh, nice one. Well done and good luck.

Joy xx