As my idiot is talking about moving abroad i am having the child maintenance and spousal maintenance capitalised. Which means after absolute he gives me nothing each month but i get most of the equity in the house. The deeds are being transfered to me and I am taking on the mort but I have to indemnify him against non payment as i don't yet earn enough to take mort into my own name. It looks like i have until youngest leaves ful time eduaction to take on mort or house has to be sold then to cancel the mort. Am hoping i can earn enough by then.I also have to sign and it is going to written into court doc's to say will I not go to csa later or he can come back and claim more from house. Hope this helps, it works for me as i cannot chase him abroad for csa so getting it upfront
