Divdad,

I understand you are angry and rightly so. You are talking from your own personal experience which is all most of us on here have.

The longer you are on the site you will see that it is the system that treats both genders badly in a number of cases not simply that it is biased towards the woman.

I have been through the court system both for contact and finances and both legal and lay persons (both men and women) have commented on my case being unfairly settled. It is the courts that allowed this as well as the family law practice as a whole. It is the outdated laws and interpretations of these laws that need changing.

Look at the forums in more depth and maybe you can find the strength; information and support to reach the settlements and agreements that you are striving for.

Best wishes.

xx Sarah xx