I have read it through it says;;;

upon the petitoner and respondant agreeing that the terms of this order are accepted in full and final satisfaction of all claims for income, capital and pension sharing orders which either may be en­title­d to bring against the other and of any nature whatsoever of the others estate in any jurisiction howsoever arising.

Does not actually say clean break anywhere in it/

Then it goes on to say neither the petitioner nor the respondant shall be en­title­d to make any further applications in relation to their marriage under matrimonal causes act 1973 s23 (1) (a) or (b),blah blah blah.

That's a clean break as far as I can see hun!!!!

Sit tight and say nothing!!

xxx

Hi Debbie

First of all, the contents of your last post mean clean break - it was written by lawyers, who of course have to use 50 words not two.

Secondly, I am amazed at how many financial cases involve "loans" from family, which doesnt consist of anything in writing, and usually one party cannot recall it - strange that, isnt it?

Thirdly - this has nothing to do with your divorce - it will not upset your financial applecart so to speak, so do not worry about it.

Forthly - they can try and take civil proceedings against you. However, this will involve them spending money on a court issue fee, so consider that and contemplate if they would do so. If they are frankly stupid enough to issue proceedings they are going to have to have proof of the loan, the agreement to repay the monies and the fact you have knowledge of it - they have none of that, and there is a little rule in law that says "he who asserts must prove".

I really would not concern yourself about this - they are involving themselves in something that has nothing to do with them and trying to bully you. However, someone can only bully you if you allow them. To use a very non legal phrase....tell em to get stuffed!!!!!

Amanda

could she sue me. but for what? on what grounds that i did not agree verbally to anything or written.

That is the point debbiej. She cannot sue you if there was no agreement.

Please do not worry!!

Thankyou all for your help. I have got myself in quite a state and my ex husband is trying to burden me with it. The agreement if there was one was HONESTLY not done with me. I am already paying for my x husbands 30 k debt so i really don't think its fair that they would just come after me and not him. My ex husband has always tried to manipulate and get me to worry as then he has got what he wanted. A very upset needy ex wife. I so do not want to worry bout this. My ex husband has no debts and is moving into a mortgage free house with his muppet, but as always the lies and deceit come out.

debbie
To be honest to take you to court for that money is going to cost them a packet. It takes a lot of time and money to do anything like that. There has to be substantial proof to even take a case to court. Take DL's advice, tell them to get knotted. It is just idle threats to make you feel like you do. Perhaps if you conveyed that attitude they would stop hounding you. It is just a little thing called 'control' over your feelings.

He is just being childish, you know, playground stuff.
Ignore him, dont give him the pleasure.

Dont worry, just get on and make your life as you want it.

zara