It seems as if many of the old faces have faded away and a whole mass of new ones have appeared. In most cases in the world that would be good...but sadly, we are all in some sort of horrible situation that was forced upon us in one way or another.

As for me, much has changed.

At a certain point where actually filing for divorce become imminent, the x2b reverted into wanting to give things another shot. She insisted that we give it a try and even promised to move from California to Las Vegas to make things work. We had discussed living separately, but seeing each other once in a while to

I spent some time this morning reading a particular person’s entire blogs - and ended up with tears streaming down my face. Not just due to the rawness of the emotions expressed in the blogs, but because of the hope and self-worth of this person in later blogs. To say the hope and self-belief this person has, has given me the same is an understatement.

We all make our own paths in life - sometimes we have a guiding hand to carve out that path, sometimes our hand is forced, but is it your own path, and one that defines you as a person. Now that my hand is free once again to carve out my path,

What to say when all is well in your life....?That's the position I'm in now.

My new positive position has made me new friends. Which in turn has given me a better understanding of where I am and where I want to be.

For all those who have suffered by their partners,I can only now say what a lucky escape.

Being and staying positive is like a drug the more you are the more you'll be. Believe in yourself not as a couple, your children will grow up eventually and leave you, the house you have is too big, it is amazing what size you could live in happily and well the money you can't take it with