Hello wiki friends,

Good News: I have got a new flat sorted. Nice converted victorian semi with a little garden for fat cat (new going out & coming routine will need to be established !!)

Help/Advice needed: I have started talking to other men in the last couple of months but at the first mention of meeting up - i run amile and get cold feet. I really dont understand why my nerves or feelings get the better of me. STBX was sleeping with someone new within 2 weeks of us seperating here's me 10 months down the road & i still cant pluck the courage up to speak to someone new. I know life is too

The Most Vital Thing In Life

When you feel like saying something

That you know you will regret,

Or keenly feel an insult

Not quite easy to forget,

That's the time to curb resentment

And maintain a mental peace,

For when your mind is tranquil

All your ill-thoughts simply cease.

It is easy to be angry

When defrauded or defiled,

To be peeved and disappointed

If your wishes are denied;

But to win a worthwhile battle

Over selfishness and spite,

You must learn to keep strict silence

Though you know you're in the right.

So keep your mental balance

When confronted by a foe,

Be it enemy in ambush,

Or some danger that