It's been on my mind now for quite a few weeks to change my name.

When I first joined Wiki I was broken, my world had fallen apart and the future was scary, very scary !!    With the help of Wiki and the wonderful people on here, it has helped me become the man I am now. A man who is happy again and has a future to look forward to and dreams to fulfil.

   We all have difficult times in our lives but we must learn from them and take the positive from them and leave the negative behind.   I can't believe some of the blogs I have read on here and what some of you have gone through, at times I

Today would have been my 21st Wedding Anniversary, no gloom here as I've renamed it my celebration day...celebration of my two beautiful Sons who have shown me this week since finding out on Sunday that their Dad has a new family to go too, that I have a lot to celebrate. Ok stbx is a nasty , cheating liar but my Sons are a credit to me, two young men who since Sunday have protectecd me loved me and  looked out for me.  So together we are strong , positive and moving forward even though we've had the stuffing knocked out of us.  I know the future weeks, months are going to be hard, but we as

I found my blue earrings. It may seem trivial to you, but to me it is very important. These are the earrings that signify the time I broke out; the time I decided I deserve better. The time I woke up to see that I am not what he says I am.

For a long time, while he was having the affair, he made me feel unattractive and unable. He later said it was the guilt talking! And even though he says it's not what he meant, he continually put me down. He turned me from a bubbly highly accomplished young woman to a timid defensive person (not woman) who kept apologising for things she should be proud