My new motto ....never turn down an opportunity to connect. (Does not apply to stbx though)

It's funny how sometimes things happen and you just feel the timing is so spot on, it must mean something. So it seemed very fitting when an e-mail from Friends Reunited popped into my inbox today announcing a profile update  on an old friend. We were best friends at school, but have really only exchanged Christmas cards since.

The last few days I have been thinking how much energy it had taken to keep my marriage going. I didn't notice it at the time, in the sense that I have always believed

India week 2

Decided to move in with the cockroach after all, as the rooms got a nice balcony and view of the pool and palm trees, not bad for £7. I'm guessing that's why the cockroach chose it, but no signs of him yet. So it's my 4th room in 7 days, not sure it's worth unpacking.

For those that asked, the weather is great with mostly blue sky it's hot, not sure how hot but unfortunately 90% humidity. Got to say on the bus home rammed in with a squillian others, after a hard day's work shit hot is the best word to describe it. Still no rain but storms are forecast this week and they have had

I debated as to whether or not to write this blog, felt it wasn’t of significance to others, but its important to me, and hey, this is my blog after all!

The past few weeks have been well, life changing to say the least. I had my head firmly stuck in the sand, and couldn’t see the point in removing it. Its better just to stay there and not deal with emotions, right?

I needed emotional closure. More than anything. I have mentioned that once the divorce had come through I would write to the man I married, putting across my thoughts and feeling on our marriage, and his actions. I