I went back to work this week after a long break (Australian summer holidays). I think it was what I needed. The days have flown and I noticed that I haven't been feeling as sad or distraught. I have been taking Chinese herbal medicine. Maybe it's starting to kick in. This week things have become clearer to me too. I know that I am better off without him. I know that i will survive. I know that whatever happens I will always have ME. Went to yoga again and I loved it. Next week I am joining a choir. I'm absolutely cr@pp*&g my pants but It's something I've always wanted to do. I don't

I am thinking of getting a divorce. It is uncontested so I was thinking of using one of these managed services online. However, I have noticed that you can get a managed divorce for less than usual on eBay. My question is, would anybody else use eBay for an uncontested divorce? I guess If you pay by PayPal you are covered if there are any problems. What does everyone else think? Would you use eBay or amazon to purchase divorce services? I suppose it isn't any different to using a successful online divorce

Today has been a day where overall I have restocked and fixed and sorted things - some of which have been bothering me for quite a while. Yesterday I got a text from the ex saying he wanted to see the kids. Im not sure what to respond yet so am thinking. he is supposed to see them in a contact centre, but threw his toys out of the pram. Me supervising is not ideal as he continues to be antagonistic and push my buttons, and though I am now on the road to emotional recovery, being around the person who murdered my marriage is not good. I don;t have that much self control, but he won't