Shhh, don't tell stbx, but I have a secret weapon.

No not a real weapon.

But a friend with plenty of experience in the type of stbx I am dealing with.

She is sometimes brutally honest about my future.

I have to think reall hard about my options.

But I think stbx won't catch up.

Eat your words stbx.

I already have the nisi, given that you tell everyone you are "perfect".

I don't listen to you anymore.

You mean nothing to me.

Sad really, because you were my world.

I respected you SO much.

You were the most important person in my life once.

I have been replaced.

I have now replaced you.

You will discover the

Good morning Wikis, I havent blogged since last year and thought I would let you all know how my new life is progressing.

I still pop into the site, and read your blogs and know exactly what you are going through. I wish I had a magic wand so that I could fast forward your lives to a time when you are over all the pain and upset of your situations. I know how dark the days can be,  that sometimes you think it will never stop hurting, and that you wonder what it was you did to deserve all this heartache - but believe me, you can and will get through it. You will find reserves of strength you

I cannot beleive it will be soon my 45th birthday!

But I feel and look 23, ha ha.

I have been going to the gym for nearly 2 years, it has made a difference, its a slow job however, but people now comment, so that spures me on.

I cannot beleive its 2 years since I stopped living with my wife, it took nearly 2 years before her controlling evil plans have ended and run out of steam. There is no power left in her now, as I was exhausted, so is she now, but I am recharged, I am stronger than before, I can stand up now, i do not feel intimidated any more.

I now have choices, I can do things I want to