Well, here I am again, unable to sleep. With the exception of 1 day in the last 5 or so, I have been in the same position. It's really irritating.

People have told me in the past that I think too much. They're right.

I wind myself up about the smallest of things at the moment. Mostly, this is because I haven't re-levelled my relationship with X2B. When she says she'll do something, I expect too much. I expect it to be like the old days. I expect her to do what she says she'll do. That's more than a little naive.

Then, because I expected too much, I get angry when she doesn't do what I

I have found myself over the past week or so thinking about the person that my STBX had/has been having an affair with....

I feel very little about this person.... I think I am supposed to feel anger/resentment/hatred for this person - but I don't...

I don't know this person.... I am curious about her....

I wonder why she would involve herself with someone who is married with a family......

Does she feel any 'guilt' about being 'involved' in the breakup of a family?

 

My STBX told our daughter that his affair had been 'going on' since 'the beginning of the year'..... he also told her that this

This blog is written by the girlfriend of the user Dockley, just to show both sides of the coin in a world gone mad where divorce is concerned.

I divorced in 1997 with 2 small children aged 4 & 3. My ex left the home and also took entire contents with him. He stopped paying the mortgage and did not pay maintenance. I on the other hand struggled to keep my part time job, care for the kids and pay the bills. This I managed and eventually had the mortgage(debt) signed over to me. There was no equity in the house at the time. Obviously I was bitter to my ex but some of the stories I read on here