Wednesday I got a call from the housing association saying they might have a house for me!!.. its being refurbished, new bathroom, new kitchen.. I'm very excited and a bit worried that I won't get it. OMG I so hope I get it....fresh start for me and the kids!!!!

Its been awful walking on eggshells here for the last few months in the middle of a divorce and still living with HIM!! ugh.. the kids have suffered as he has been telling them its "all my fault" even though he agreed we needed to split. He told them he still loved me... which he explained to me as meaning he still cared about me.... I

Hi, this is an emotional dumping exercise, no replies required!

First of all sorry. I previously promised to not leave this site without saying goodbye (previous concerns of members not hearing from other members) and have not logged on for a while) and had intended to log on just to sayI'm OK. I've now got a big need to unload, and feel bad because I've offered little to help others, but I don't expect responses - just a chance to express some feelings that I really want to aim at my ex but know that would only make things worse.

I thought all was going OK. I thought I had reached a HUGE point

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not

meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes

you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you

as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't

mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he