Hi Mr Blogman and wiki pals..

been a while since ive blogged, kinda missed you ;-)

today was a day for dealing with stuff....financial stuff...well housey financial stuff actually....the bloody council tax hasnt been paid.....ok my fault kept meaning to get around to it - its only august installmentso not too bad, but they sent me the new letter which is just for me as I told them single occupancy etc and they've messed up !!! typical bloody council.....so im glad i didnt pay it......it has gone down abit since i told them i was on my own...that i do know re my conversation but the letter they

Well I went for my interview today & I got the job cleaning in a residential home. I'm a bit apprehensive about coming of benifits & going on a monthly salary, but i'm sure my son & I will manage. I start my job next monday the exact day tht I started recieving benifits when he left me with nothing. I'm going to see my lone parent adviser on thursday. I'm really shocked at the help & suport tht they offer & it will be great knowing tht she will still be there for me up to 6 months after I start work.

I spoke to my stbx today for the first in months. We chatted for around 3 hours on the fone. I

Well, I have had quite an ordinary week.

Scumbag has apparently gone down to Cornwall to see his mum, and have his car MOTd (?) by his brother-my son reckons it would fail if he took it anywhere else! So, I have zero contact with him.

Sol has gone away for a week aswell-perhaps he has gone to see my stbx mother in law too-lol!!! So, I have had zero contact from him too.

If this is how life will be when the divorce is all finalised, then it isn't too bad. Not very exciting,but at least it isn't stressful and miserable.

I have had a couple of panics about how I am going to manage financially, but