I joined Wiki yesterday (glad), also put our home on the market (bad). we both listened to the estate agent explain the market (blah! Blah!), we decided to go ahead and he left us.

I was in bits (inside) whilst she went looking for things to easily remove and take with her to her temporary residence. we didnt talk.

10 minutes later she was gone and then i received a text message telling me the bloody obvious 'you forced me to do this, all your fault' etc etc.

she is right, had i been more attentive, caring and understanding during our 14 years together i would not be going through what i can

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I'm new to this blog ... I have been so fed up and came across this site today. Where do I begin? Found out back in Feb that my lovely Husband of 21 yrs has been having an affair. I have two gorgeous Boys. One in his first year at Uni the other is in yr 12 doing AS Levels..great timing!! The boys have no idea we are getting Divorced, I have been living a nightmare double life as under no circumstances did I want their Exams ruined for this yr. I am under no illusion that things are going to get really bad and therfore as their Mum I have protected them. We are going to tell them in late

My blog has stalled but hopefully this entry will help you see why i've been dumbfounded.

Wednesday night i got on the internet and checked our joint account. A cheque had been presented for £130. I questioned Sharon over it but she denied it, I took the cheque book from her and told her not to write any more cheques.

Checking the account I found the cheque was actually from the next cheque book.

Next day at work towards the end of the day, Checking the account I find cheques have been presented for £250. I immedeately call the bank. The account is suspended.

I get home and confront Sharon. She