The past couple of days have been hard. Since our cat died on Friday I have been giving the stbx lots of respect and supporting her and the kids about it, digging the grave etc - doing what any decent hubby would do - cuddling her and holding her when she needed it. We've spent hours going through all our photos of the cat as we will print some and put them around the house.
And today we watched my youngest play footy along with her parents, so played happy families. They know about the split but the rest of the team/parents don't.
So its been hard to concentrate on the fact that she is