Well no champagne picnic tomorrow, he has booked a golf lesson and then going for beers, in the pub she works at on sat. Didn't even bother to tell me tomorrow was off.  Last night it was still on, I had texted him about arrangements, he said nothing about not coming. God when he brought daughter back I really wanted to be violent towards him.

I think he had the hump and is getting at me as just after he got here my oldest daughter's boyfriends dad had just arrived to pick him up. s2bx always was ignorant when we had visitors and often didn't speak to them and I think he got the grumps today

Really? Oh yes.

I mean, pandering to the cat and dog to the extent that she'll allow them to drink the remainder of her milk from her breakfast bowl out of the bowl itself.

That, for me is just disgusting.

Oh yes, I said to stop it, too right I did. But she won't be told what to do, will she. Nope, what we'll do instead is to make sure 'Dad's' not around when it happens instead.

I mean, what the animals want is far more important than what I and the kids want.

Not a cross word to the cat about crapping on the carpet, or the dog for insanely barking. Bless them, she loves them and they love her.

Just want to get my head around something here, your feedback would mean a lot.

I first noticed the following trait about my wife, and over the years there have been many instanceswhere this trait has reared it's ugly head.

Years ago and at 3.00 in the morning I woke up. Struggling to get breath. I have slight asthma. I mean, it wasn't the end of the world, but tight chested and in need of my inhaler.  But my inhaler had run out.

"Can you call the doctor?" I asked?

"Certainly not" came the reply, "...it's your own fault that you smoke..."

Now, maybe, just maybe I'm wrong and she's right. I mean, I