Big talks with the ex today and I managed to calm her down everytime she tried to argue with me. - It is great you finish as a couple and they still think they can treat you the same!!

Oh well good news she has decided to accept my offer to buy her out so I can stay in my house and not have to move to a flat and loose loads of money to estate agents, stamp duty, redemtion penalty etc.......

So onwards to the new chapter in my life once it is all done and signed of I think I will have to get a lodger to help pay with the bills - no more walking around in my under crackers!!! LOL

She actually

Sunday morning, 7:35.... ring, ring....
ZZZZZZ, Grunt, Hello?
Michael? (Oooeeer Sunday name..Not good then...)
Yes?
Got a problem
What's that?
Puncture

The significance is that she is supposed to collect the Sunday chambermaid on her way in from her rented house, 8 miles from our hotel, for her breakfast shift - Full house, 22 for breakfast. My morning off.

The impact is that I have to leap out of bed, run around like a headless chicken to get the chambermaid in, get the breakfast ready etc before 8am. Grrrrrr!
She arranges to get herself in by taxi.

Dilemma. What to do about puncture. I ask her

My wife and I have been together 8 years, married 7, happiest times of my life (or so I thought). Then I found out she had an affair with my"best friend", and moved out for six months, leaving me with our 2year old daughter. When that went pear shaped she came back, sorry for the mistake and we were going to make it work, but of course it had been my fault for driving her to him as I wasn't giving her the love and attention she deserves.

Then she went to South Africa to get her son and stayed 3 months and had another affair with some guy down there, 'cause again I'd been negleting her needs,