I have been talking to s2bx on the phone, after trying unsucessfully for a face to face meeting.After I found out that he missed a few payments on the life insurance policy and mortgage I wanted to know what was happening,as I don't want the house repossessed and if either of us drop down dead the life insurance to be paid out.Finally sorted it out with him and he had been arranging to pay the outstanding payments back.So that is a weight off my mind, even though I find it hard to trust him, as why if he can make overpayments to catch up on payments could he not have simply paid things in the

My new motto ....never turn down an opportunity to connect. (Does not apply to stbx though)

It's funny how sometimes things happen and you just feel the timing is so spot on, it must mean something. So it seemed very fitting when an e-mail from Friends Reunited popped into my inbox today announcing a profile update  on an old friend. We were best friends at school, but have really only exchanged Christmas cards since.

The last few days I have been thinking how much energy it had taken to keep my marriage going. I didn't notice it at the time, in the sense that I have always believed

Hi Senor Blogman and lovely wiki peeps...

please excuse me for the future hhmmm can you hear it ? sarcasim

so i get an email at work today from my ex !

much discussion ( i did post actual wording but arnie has made me re think about this so I have deleted it) which athough he is right is much to my annoyance as I feel he should be named and shamed for what he's done ! never mind arnies right....

we are meeting within the next 2 weeks...this will be 6 mths after it all started and 5 mths since he left..... 

The next part of the bloody chapter is about to start, well at least I went ahead and got