Where to start.....

Well.... a quick recap.... over seven weeks ago now, my husband left... wiping out our finances as he went....

He didn't get in contact....I wasn't sure exactly where he was..... but through sheer luck, I managed to find out... thanks to him not redirecting his mail....

Anyway.... skip to today - what a day!!!!!!

Firstly, the post brought his mobile phone bill..... there was one number that came up hundreds of times.... a mobile number.... then there was another number which also came up a lot - a landline number....

It didn't take a genius to figure it out..... and although I

Hi All,

Never done this before, but here goes.

Was with wife for 15yrs and 11 married, Four children. We Lived in a council house, so no money worries about a mortage. Asked to leave house by wife , then two weeks later told by wife she wanted a separation. All this due to an arguement we had afew weeks before about her family. Not one to say anything but now i know that her family came first in our marriage.

My question to anyone who can answer is ------- Due to the fact that she has sole name on rent book can I get housing from the council so that i can see and have my kids stay instead of

A little harsher yesterday. It was the first day that using the website hadn't helped - having to, in a virtual sense, get in between two warring factions on the forum felt a little too much like my real marriage for comfort!

My x2b turned up and banged on the window while I was cooking. She'd turned up for her post, dressed to the nines. I said "you look nice, going out?" She claimed that she'd just been to the doctor! She only wears heels when she's going out for a date. Maybe she's started on the doctor at the GU clinic now!

I bit the bullet and made her a verbal offer for settlement.