Just when I thought I was doing really well, and all in the garden of life was blooming, it start to rain, not just a light refreshing shower, but  a great deludge of big fat raindrops.

 

My worries are minor in comparison to many, I realise that, but they are still there, occupying my head all the time, pushing the good thoughts and feelings to the back of my mind.

 

I worry that he, the x2b, will come back and try to move back in (something that has always concerned me, probably unnecessarily), him changing his mind about the separation agreement, deciding that he wont consent to a

It is so unfair. How can I stop him having financial control over me?

Once again, he has failed to pay my Child Maintenance on time. My mortgage is due tomorrow and still the CSA have not received his money. I could shift some money around; although even this is  getting hard to do as my reserve tank that is there to pay my solicitor's bill for the transfer of property is being "borrowed" left, right and centre.

Thing is, he has NOT paid before; not just a late payment but NOT paid. So I would be leaving myself wide open and then not having money to feed the children for the month if this is

At present we rent and don't own our own house.  At what point would I become responsible for providing seperate accomodation for them (her and three children - although one is at Uni now) [They can't stay where they are at present]?  It would have to be a rental, if I was liable for this, as I don't have the money to buy a house otherwise we'd be in one now.  How long would I have to be finantial responsible for this as well, until the youngest leaves full time education maybe?  And would this be classed as an additional finantial beyond maintenance payments or part of?  I couldn't work out