My blog has stalled but hopefully this entry will help you see why i've been dumbfounded.

Wednesday night i got on the internet and checked our joint account. A cheque had been presented for £130. I questioned Sharon over it but she denied it, I took the cheque book from her and told her not to write any more cheques.

Checking the account I found the cheque was actually from the next cheque book.

Next day at work towards the end of the day, Checking the account I find cheques have been presented for £250. I immedeately call the bank. The account is suspended.

I get home and confront Sharon. She

Got it wrong at the end of last nights blog. He lied to daughter.

Came home today, to letter pushed through the door. My post that had been redirected to him for some strange reason, inc one from our mortgage co. and one from our bank. Apparently scumbag stopped all our standing orders on May 12th inc the one for the mortgage!! Remember him promising to pay the mortgage and life ins? When I voiced my concerns and contacted the mortgage co to double pay, scumbag was hurt by my lack of trust!!

Well once again, after a stressful day at work, I had to start ringing around, trying to salvage what I

I have now being going through the divorce process for coming up to 2 years (and its still on-going), and I am now at the point were I feel strong and in-control, so thought it was time to share my story.

I thought the best place to begin was right at the beginning, with an overview of what led me to this place....

• Summer 03 bought my own property with approx £55k deposit
• Summer 04 started living with stbx in my property (18 months)
• Winter 06 married (4 months)
• No children, no contribution from my stbx.
• Summer 06 separated
• Spring 07 my property sold and proceeds held by solicitor (Approx