Had a good day yesterday. Watched Speed Racer at the Imax with the children, we sat too close to the front and ate too much popcorn but hey they enjoyed it!

Last night slightly less enjoyable when stbx returned. Whatever I did was wrong and she seemed determined to have an argument. She was certainly seeking some sort of reaction. I've found the best form of attack is to say almost nothing, it seems to be highly effective as all stbx is seeking is confrontation and gets pretty angry when it doesn't occur.

Today have felt pretty drained by the whole affair. I enjoy the childrens company

Morning

Didn't sleep well at all. My head is spinning, it's getting nearer the "telling our Sons day "and although the relief of the secret being out is what I've been striving for I'm actually terrified, angry and really fed up today! Doesn't help that s2bx was horrible to me yesterday saying things like " but you will have a mortgage free home" and "why are you so miserable"....does he really care at all that our Sons are going to have their security taken away from them? My eldest will be home from his first year at Uni and all he talks about is his new house for next year and his plans and

My blog has stalled but hopefully this entry will help you see why i've been dumbfounded.

Wednesday night i got on the internet and checked our joint account. A cheque had been presented for £130. I questioned Sharon over it but she denied it, I took the cheque book from her and told her not to write any more cheques.

Checking the account I found the cheque was actually from the next cheque book.

Next day at work towards the end of the day, Checking the account I find cheques have been presented for £250. I immedeately call the bank. The account is suspended.

I get home and confront Sharon. She