The b'atch has not bothered replying to the finance proposal, I going to assume she is going to use the credit crunch to devaluve the house and her other assets but not my pension.

Summer holidays are nearly here and filling me with dread, she has already said the only reason she is speaking to my parents is so that they can have the kids while she does extra work, should I be happy for her finally getting off her arse, why the hell should I shes pocketing the money.

My parents are both old but love the kids so they are happy to go along with it all but it means I have a round trip of fetch and

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Just a brief one today, been a hell of a day, PANTS to be exact.

Got letter fron his sol having nerve to ask me to put back the money I had taken out of the joint account by tomorr or they will freeze all accounts. Never mind the fact that I took exeactly half, to protect some of it when I discovered he still spending like water on e-bay and did not want to discover debts of 70k again and nearly lose house again.Plus he now decided only gonna give me half mortgage and nothing else monthly, leaving me short by about £500 a month and him with £700+ floating around spare, not even taking

Hi all, Well have sent the b'atch yet another proposal and informed her that the financal terms are being reduce over the next two months, so that by Sept she will only be getting the 150% as calculated by the CSA.

Now it's me thats being unfair and not helping, how can I survivie on that much (plus all the child benefit, WTC, CTC, and her salary) should I give a sh1t about it any more, I think the answer is no but here I am 11pm been up since 5:45 and I feel like the bad guy?

I know I will look after the kids come hell or high water but why should I have to look after her, she has a