Damn. Was meant to be keeping a more up-to-date version of this, but seem to have been distracted by a great many things, like responding to other people's posts.

Anyway, today will be another milestone. Tonight we have the first Mediation meeting at the solicitors, for the bargain price of £180/hr. EH? £180/hr!!!!!! And the first thing he wants to do is summarise why we're there? Jesus man, I can read, I know why we're there, I don't need an explanation at £6.00 a minute to tell me what I already know. I think it was Michael Winner who, in a rare moment of clarity, suggested he hates

we had our first mediation meeting yesterday, i would say it was most frightning, to find yourself in this situation is a realisation but i guess its a sign that things have moved on and we wont to get things sorted. I came out of it feeling pretty good even though there is a long way to go.

She agreed that it was all her fault and that she wanted me to be happy going forward. She still wants to be with the kids and provide her mum with a home, in reality with my travelling all i have done is keep the process going with her and him in being around to give her space to be with him while i have

Yesterday found myself faultering, Questions over to mediate or not?My ex2b asked the question and I could not handle it's importance so I argued about the situation we were in instead.I asked the question in the chat room...mental and financial benefits..and less worry for my daughter was the answer.

My solicitor has advised me that to get a fair settlement for myself I should go for my wives inheritance. I don't know if this would come up in mediation.And also I don't feel it's anything to do with our marriage.

Today the paperwork from my solicitor came in with the first bill.I have to read