Well, I went to mediation.Very interesting to say the least.I found that the woman mediator was very unbiased.For me personally it has helped me move on in one session.I have agreed to sort out the financial disclosure with them rather than a solicitor.Saving me about £3000 if it works.My wife was very surprise to have to admit that she was a part owner of a house in Spain. The secrets out.... and more to come.The unreasonable behaviour from her has been shown up for the first time in an interview with somebody else. I now feel better for that fact alone.

I will talk later about the

Yesterday I signed the courts petition at my sols.Strange moment ,felt like I had bought a ticket for something,but did not know where it was going to take me. The feeling changed when my sol asked me ,"if my wife changed her mind would I want to scrap all the work she had done" ???????

Anyway today is Wednesday and I am off to the Mediator with my wife...That going to be real fun....Not..

Wish me luck,I let you know how I got on later .

X to all.

It's too late at night to be writing this really and I have to be up early but I am so wound up I need to get it off my chest.

 Have disclosed everything as required, but very little from stbx.  "As I have no money there is nothing to show"  She is being so beligerent and stubborn that I lost it.  How does she expect me to pay mortage on MH, maintenance, school fees, car costs(although we did agree I would sign that over) and then find enough for my own place.

We are in this position mainly because of money and her idea that somehow there should be more.  Perhaps she should ask Gordan Brown why