Here's my first blog entry on Wikivorce. I've been blogging about my situation sporadically in a separate space at http://alovingdad.blogspot.com which I don'[t think anyone else has ever read, but I'm more than happy for wikivorcers to visit it and take a peak. I thought I'd continue things here as I feel very secure and supported within this environment and welcome people's thoughts on my situation, hoping that some of the things I'm going through could be useful to others.

 Yesterday marked the end of about 8 months of periodic mediation with FXW (future-ex-wife), most of which has been

I've woken up today and felt a wave of desire come over me to "Write It Down".

 You see, nearly a year ago something happened in our house (which I'll write about later).

 In my eyes, what happened was, well - extra-ordinary.

So upset by it was I at that time, I took myself off to the doctors. I had been meaning to go anyway, I'd been feeling low up until that point anyway and needed to chat with someone about the levels of my drinking that had been rising.

 I suppose like all qualified people, she did something quite clever. Of course the drinking is a bad idea, but what's important is what's

This post ties in with a post on my own personal blog named Gotcha……. dysfunctional complaints procedures.

Before I get to the "meat in the sandwich" I will deal with the siren voices from the self appointed elites in the wikivorce community that perpetually claim that my threads and comments are not why people come to wikivorce and how I endanger the community.

In my world hits means interest and that is true of anybody who is seriously developing a presence on the internet.  In my world professional standards mean somthing, in my world professionals are required to exhibit a level of