Im due to have a mediation appointment next month. Im unsure as to what i can expect. Im starting to fill out the financial documents etc. Im unsure if my ex is going to disclose everything required, what happens if she fails to do so? Also is Mediation a good way to deal with things ? Cheers Tc

Today has been my 1st mediation appiontment ,which was stressing me to the hilt before i arrived.

When i left my x he had a nervous breakdown apparently, all I know is he stalked me, harrassed me, threatened me and made me scared to be alone in my own house, and made me make the very hard decsion to not allow him to see his son, as i was not convinced my son was safe.

My x filed for divorce when he was very angry and upset, blamining the breakdown of the marriage on me, and the 5 month affair i had had.  Not the 11 year affair he had been having (wasnt an affair he said as i had full

On my 7th wedding anniversary (18th August 2008) my then wife told me she was no longer happy and wanted to part ways. That is exactly a year to the day.

I am having time today to reflect and having not blogged or contributed to this most brilliant of support websites for a while, I wanted to put my thoughts down, exactly one year on.  In doing so, I will be able to look and compare my first posts and blog entries against this one, and see just how far I have come.

Well physically I have not moved much. I still unfortunately reside at my parents house for financial reasons as the family home