Really can't be bothered with anything tonight. Tonight was supposed to be a great night, in that G/F was supposed to be on her works xmas party and she was coming to me straight from work and I was taking her and then picking her up at 1am, but.... she was sick during work yesterday and went home and slept. I hardly heard a sausage from her last night though to be fair she said she was goign to bed early. Anyway, had the day off today and done some xmas shopping. sent her a text askign how she was and she said she was just as bad as yesterday and she was staying in bed. I then feared for

Hi,

This so wonderful being able to just ramble on! I have had only 1 person to talk to about this thing.My wifes best friend  and a good friend of mine. She has been very supportive and non judgemental or side taking at all. She is so upset at this too.It was her who catered for our wedding and we went through hard and good times together. We have known each others kids since they were born and they were pals together until she and her family moved away.

I feel like a blind man fumbling in the darkness. My wife gave me no warning at all that this was in the offing. No support either when I had

Morning all !

Its  Monday and had a really interesting "chat" with G/F last night on MSN Messenger. Apart from her disagreeing with my solicitors advice (sol says leave things now until Jan and then start to push stbx re FMH sale as stbx said she WILL start to proceed with hosue sale, but G/F says she'd put house up for sale NOW if it was her), G/F invited me and 8yr old dau to her house for Boxing day. I HAD tried to wangle an invite to G/F sisters as G/F and son and family are there for xmas day, but she seemed reluctant to have me at her sisters with her etc... Suppose I sort of knew she