This is going to sound really crazy, but i'm on another social networking site (NOT FB) and its a piece of cake to work way around, and now i came on here and i feel like the new girl on the first day of school!

OMG the layout and everything is complicated ! AS i mentioned am new today and would love to chat to like minded going through the mine field of

"Realdad became a fan of checking your spouses marital status on facebook to see if you're still married"

 This is kind of a jokey post and I'm gonna ramble for a minute.

This title up above is something thats been rolling around in my head for the last 2 weeks. My divorce is supposed to be final, like, any minute. And I found myself at least twice checking my ex (stbx?)'s profile on facebook to see if she'd changed her marital status yet or not since it's her lawyer that's going to return the paperwork to us. LOL, is this stupid or what?!?  We didn't have to go before the judge, so it's kind

Well have been divorced a year now separated for longer and have not blogged on the site for ages.

And why am I blogging again ?  I dont know really but am having a few dilemas and sometimes its agood idea to share thoughts or just put them down in writing, a very strange compulsion.  It can clarify radom thoughts putting them down in a logical order. Writing makes sense of the jumble that your brain can put out in very quick, short bursts.

I have been so happy for these past couple of years since separation, not regretted the divorce at all.  If you read my previous entry you will see that we