My husband came round to collect our girls yesterday.   He was so different...

Previously he has been very 'closed', very business like or deliberately hurtful, mentioning his mistress and his new life.  All of this is so out of character of the husband I knew and loved, a complete personality change.

Yesterday he came in, was very chatty.  Wanted to know all about our holiday.  (The children and I have just retuned from a week in France).   Sat down and had a cuppa and we started to reminisce about past family holidays.  

He has been so unkind during the past 12 months, behaving as if he hated

Well what else can I say?

 I am p***sed off. My ex cancelled contact with the children for yesterday.

And why?

So he and his finacee could go and see Bryan Adams in concert and make a weekend of it. He phoned to speak to the children tonight and told them all about it.

He says he has no money, not enough to pay my daughter the sponsor money he owes her, not enough to give me to pay for the children to go on their school trips; yet they can swan off to Newmarket to see Bryan Adams and have a night in a hotel too.

 So, whilst I struggle to pay the mortgage every month, he and his fiancee can have

He's out of my bed as of yesterday and out of the house this coming Wednesday! After 5 months of keeping his nasty secret to protect my Boys and let them complete their revision and first year exams at University and AS Levels we have told them and as you all said they are real treasures! Youngest knew we had problems , eldest has lived away from home for nearly a year so hadn't really known but boy did they react when they heard about "her"! No respect what so ever left for their Dad, so angry with him and so protective of me. I really now know that what I did was soooo right  although I've