Hi all. Funny how some things turn out. Dating sites are a flipping nightmare, they are full of fake profiles and players. As a genuine guy, its difficult to get noticed as, most women get hundreds of emails and they end up deleting them all except the odd one which might catch their eye, what catches their eye? Except for the situation where a girl contacts a guy, thats different, you already got their attention without doing anything. Thsi girl, woman!, messaged me on POF, which by the way seems to be quite a good dating site. I wont tell you her name, we will just call her

hello me again i need a rant tonight..... i joined facebook a few days back, to catch up with old friends and i must admit ive enjoyed it very much, had quite a few blasts from the past. i thought i would take a look at my exs page. im glad i did, i found out what a complete and utter lier he is. he told me when he left on the 12th december he had depression and stress, he knew i had been married to a man who suffered from chronic depression, so much so he took his own life. turns out the ex has hooked up with an old school friend, the p...k !! i no her name, where she lives, she has a

Ok...... reading the Bel Mooney column in the Daily Mail yesterday has finally persuaded me to cut my blogging teeth! In Bel's letter to some poor tormented soul who who was still furious at her husband leaving her nine years ago out came that line so favoured by our adulterous spouses "no marriage break-up is the fault of just one half of the couple." Well, all I can say is that I am sick of reading and hearing this rubbish. In my case, there were problems before he ran off into the sunset with his new woman, but the problems were not between us. In our case the problems were caused by us