Is it me ?? Is this real ??

My stbx bloke who she had the affair with rang me from her mobile threatening me and going all crazy on Saturday night - but get this - by the end of the 20 minute call he was crying saying the she was only using him as a stop gap !!

I got off the call and thought did that just happen ?? Sounds like they are well suited . My new word for them is "mentalists" !!

Oh and I couldnt let slip to her that my nick name for him is "bus boy" as he still has,nt passed his driving test at 37 !! Whats a plonker ...

Thought I would share this as it makes me smile ..

i guess it was bound to happen sooner or later, but when it does it dont make it any easier. You see my STBX and her BF are trying to play happy families with his boys and scott my son, all along so far they have not wanted to be with their dad when she has been around. However that has changed and they will now stay at his place when she is there. Now one of the boys was my sons best friend untill all this happened, but they are in the same class at school and still play with each other, and he has stayed with me on numerous occasions- no problem there. However i am in bloody germany and

Can't remember where I got this information from now think it was from another website but having chatted with members in the forum this afternoon thought it might be useful to post here. Obviously it is written for the scenario of men introducing their children to new partners but is equally appropriate for women introduing their children to new partners too.

One of the most stressful things you can do as a separated father is to introduce your children to your new partner. You want everyone to like and accept everyone else - and you're really not sure what you'll do if that doesn't happen.