Hello again!  For all of those that may remember me, and for those who do not, I am Mark. I was on here some months ago and have returned after 7 months of not posting.  I just wanted to write an updated blog of reassurance and well wishing for the New Year to those new people who are unfortunately going through the same horrible mess that I endured all those months ago.

It has been 17 months since my wife left me, and alot has happened in that time.

At first we did not get along and there was alot of hate and anger. I hope my writing this will be testiment to those who are currently hurting

Thought that those who remember me might like to know the latest in the saga.  Since my last update the FDR was cancelled.  Why?  She produced her 3rd child a month early 5 days before FDR due so solicitor advised (and I had to agree) that FDR should be postponded.  Only another 3 month wait then for next available appointment.  Think that FDR is a waste of time, and should apply straight for Final Hearing now to get up the queue a bit.

So poor child born premature and quite underweight (due almost entirely to alcohol consumption during pregnancy I am informed)  It is likely to have suffered

leading up to my break up i discovered that my stbx had been socialising with a friend from work ... no worries on this at first but when it happened on a regular basis i asked if there was anything more going on she denined this of course but i had a nagging feeling inside my gut this lead to the situation  blowing up and my stbx declared  she didnt love me anymore and left the next day.....

moving on 6 months i have now discovered that she is seeing him so my gut feelings and instinct were proved to be correct 

this gives me closure as i thought i was going mad and seeing signs that just