I have had a lovely day today with my children and Wiki member Spyder and her two children at Camelot theme park.

Spyder and I met at Wikistock in Lancaster and have talked in main chat before,and we decided to meet up with our kids over the summer as it can be hard being an adult with children out and about,and sometimes a group of kids get along better.Of course the conversation always turns to 'divorce',how we are coping, what plans we have for the future etc etc, and it is just easy to talk to someone going through similiar experiences.

When I joined Wiki I was desperate to talk to people

Hi Mr Blogman..

 well tis monday morning, the start of a new week...

today I feel good, yesterday I felt good, great actually, I havent had a sunday like that in ages....as in no tears...no unhappiness....no loneliness...

 maybe this is just an up time, well i tell you what Im makin the most of it !! i like this feeling.....

(actually i think the 99 ice cream with a flake covered in nuts and raspberry sauce I had on sat has done it !!!! - god havent had one in years)  made me feel like a kid again..

 so my advice to you all today is go get a 99 flake ice cream !! love it, eat it and be happy

When I started writing my blog, I found it easier to invent an alter-ego and write as though what was happening to me, was actually happening to someone else. Although I wrote in the first person, it, for me, was less difficult to describe the emotions of “housewife”, rather than the emotions of  Ruby. (Hope that makes sense?) So instead of blogging as Housewife in the future, I intend to blog as me.

Yesterday was another turning point for me. My solicitor phoned to go through the separation agreement with me, and make sure that I was still happy with the terms I had agreed to with the