We often seek answers to some of the questions that life throws at us.  We feel that if we have an explanation for events that have taken place in our lives, then we will understand why they have happened to us. Sometimes, however, there are no answers, they just simply aren’t there to be found. That is the time to accept that we can not explain certain events, and leave them in the past. .

I have believed for a long time, that what has happened in the past, should always remain there. There is no point dragging your entire emotional baggage around with you, year after year, firstly you will

I spent some time this morning reading a particular person’s entire blogs - and ended up with tears streaming down my face. Not just due to the rawness of the emotions expressed in the blogs, but because of the hope and self-worth of this person in later blogs. To say the hope and self-belief this person has, has given me the same is an understatement.

We all make our own paths in life - sometimes we have a guiding hand to carve out that path, sometimes our hand is forced, but is it your own path, and one that defines you as a person. Now that my hand is free once again to carve out my path,

Felt I had to share this one !

My son has received 8 cousellin sessions really benefited from them all. Tonight we chatted as we do most nights but this was different some how. He said that he finally realised that his dad puts himself before his children and thats y he was so upset since we split.

He said talking to me 2night was a revelation. Like I had lifted a huge weight off his shoulders. For weeks Ive tried so hard to take his pain away and now he has moved on so can I.