Stayed at new fellas (johns) for the weekend was totaly spoilt he cooked me a meal new table cloth flowers chocs and wine on table he made homemade lasgne and a home made cake to was lush never had that done for me ever he has made me come alive again so caring and tentive so enjoying our times together still taking it slow but hes so understanding so happy right now

I went into the evening determined to maintain a positive attitude. We have had so many bad times in the last ten months and so many ugly fights that I was determined not to go down that road. We went into the city and grabbed a nice dinner and a new upscale Vietnamese restaurant (really good BTW) and then went to the club to see the band. It was fun, we had a good time. It was kind of like a first date as I think we were both nervous and weren't sure of what we were doing. Although, with a first date I think I would not have been so tentative with anything close to physical. There was no

So tomorrow night is the date with my wife. I arranged a nice Turkish restaurant and then a pub next door for a drink after. She asked what we'd be doing and I told her and she said "oh, the same old thing. I was hoping for something fun like racing go karts or going kayaking". ok, here is where I need some advice. My theory was let's see if we can talk and have fun rediscover each other and not fight. I guess she was thinking of a more fun activity. Should I change the plans based on her input? I could find a place to go dancing or race go karts or bowling or something touristy. Should I