Well this is a new one for me - never thought I'd end up doing this sort of thing.

Thing is though I'm wandering if there is anyone out there who has ended up getting themselves into such a rediculous situation as I have. So here is the expidited version of my current situation.

Married for 17 years - aged 46. 1 child - daughter 14 and a half (always imprtant - the half!!). Wife has affair 3 years ago - I find out - she gives me the whole kick in the gonads - don't love you any more etc etc want a divorce. I accomodate and 3 mths later she is out leaving daughter with me. She never wanted to

Last night and today is one of the worst I have ever experienced, the love of my life Pippa was diagnosed with a tumour.

She has seen me over the last 12 years go through hell and back with my stbx, always offering a smile, cuddle and a wag.  She has only just come out of surgery 2 weeks ago and now I have to make the decision on what is best for her, surgery and chemo or painkillers and let her go.

I've read up on the tumour which helps as I now know if it is stage 11 she won't have much chance and the extra time she would get isn't worth putting her through the pain.

I love her so much, I got

new and scared

Hi all

Im new on here but i hope you dont mind listening

Myy hubby of 22 years has walked away and left me

I dont know why or were he has gone he did not contact kids for ten days and now has only sent one text to the eldest

I feel like im breaking in two .i wonder what i have done thats so wrong and why he does not want to be with me anymore

The children want answers i cant give them

the pain is undescibable.

he has been strange for a couple of months but i never expected this

thanks for listening

must stop im crying