Hi Mr Blogman..

 well tis monday morning, the start of a new week...

today I feel good, yesterday I felt good, great actually, I havent had a sunday like that in ages....as in no tears...no unhappiness....no loneliness...

 maybe this is just an up time, well i tell you what Im makin the most of it !! i like this feeling.....

(actually i think the 99 ice cream with a flake covered in nuts and raspberry sauce I had on sat has done it !!!! - god havent had one in years)  made me feel like a kid again..

 so my advice to you all today is go get a 99 flake ice cream !! love it, eat it and be happy

So another week goes by, this week I set myself the task of getting back in touch with an old friend, doing something about finding a job that I find more challenging, drinking only at the weekend (almost there now!) and exercising more.

 Well I have to report, that I have been able to put a tick against every one of these seemingly simple tasks, and just as I thought I feel like bit by bit I am putting my life back in order.

The old friend, who I hadnt spoken too for probably 5 years plus, knew me and the ex pretty well, from before we were married, she said that she wasnt surprised that we

Hi,  I thought I would write a quick blog as I have had a great night.

i started out feeling fed up, tired, angry etc as I had to help write my daughter Rachel's statement to give to my x's solicitors.

Now it is finished, yippee

I feel like a weight has been lifted just by finishing it, it's surprising how something as simple as a statement can drag you down.

I know a lot of people, myself included, have days when you just want to run away and try to forget this is all going on.

you wonder whether the courts make you do all this paperwork to either put you off divorce or get you to settle because