As some of you know my stbx has had a proposal sitting with her since May, yes I know not a long time compaired to others on here but it's seemed a lot longer.

Anyway she has finally replied, and once I stopped laughing / crying I am still no further forward. She is claiming that the house has lost £15K in the last 2 months which is strange as all the others around us have only lost between £2 - 4K, she wants everything in the house, the car I bought, oh and she also want 150% of the CSA payments that she is due and this to be signed over in a consent form,  ahhhhhhh

Well haven't replied yet as

This blogging seems to be very therapeutic. I was really encouraged by the three replies to my first blog, SOMEONE OUT THERE CARES. I would like to reply to the people who commented below

 Marriaa

Thanks for the comments, I am sure that you are correct in that the emotions one experiences come in different orders for different people, sorry to hear that you are having to cope with loss at the moment, loss is a difficult emotion to deal with as there does not appear any way to channel the emotion into something / somewhere positive. I will certainly join chat, although I often have difficulties

I started this blog as my profile, initially I felt too shy to post it, but having reviewed it I thought it would really be better as a blog

Steve

Hi

I'm a 53 year old professional man living in North Devon, Happily Married (So I Thought) for 8 years. My wife has recently left, and has flown to Sweden to see her 2nd Cyberlover for a month (09/07/2008). Prior to that she went to Rhodes a month ago to see another Cyberlover

Currently feeling all the emotions one expects happens in such circumstances (sadness, loss, emptyness, betrayal, fear, uncertanty,guilt, concern for her well being etc.