The weekend turned out not too bad, I guess I am getting used to volatility after almost a year of this. Friday night was awful as I wrote about previously. Thanks for all the comments - much appreciated. Saturday I was in a bit of a trance as not much sleep on Friday night. What made the weekend ok was I worked hard to live up activities with friends for Saturday night, Sunday afternoon and Sunday evening. It made it very busy but I took the time to connect with three separate groups of people and it was fun. I was on a 3 hour hike today which was beautiful. Got above the snowline on the

A few days off, chilling in the sun and generally having some ME time has regenerated the batteries :o) I have been refurbishing my grandmothers old house to move into.... She surrounded herself with thoose dreaded leyladi conifers..... they ae now 30ft high... quoted £4500 to take them down... GULP! So invested in a chain saw! Daunting task... will be a long drawn out affair i think! Anyone for logs! Some good news yesterday in that my grandmothers inheritance is safe as she placed it into a non designated trust. Which means it is not part of my assets. Thank god... hated the thought

What lovely weather.... and a few days off work. :o) She who is now to be referred to as the S2BX rather than the wife as i noticed i had reverted too.. has sent me an email detailing as she is looking at new flooring for the bathroom in the FMH and will let me know how much it is? Now admittedly i ripped the bathroom out pre separation and finished fitting the new shower etc after so they had the facilities. and i did not renew the flooring. But I am now trying to fit out my own place and sort my own life! Should i be expected to a for things like this between seperation and