Well..... that's the 'First Appointment' over with.... except... it was adjourned... My STBX has been ordered to file and serve the missing documentation within 21 days..... As expected, nothing much else happened.... He made a fuss about the valuation on the house.... I was asked to get a valuation done to go along with my Form E... which, true to form, I did.... I got a valuation done by one of the most used estate agents in the area.... but, now we have been ordered, either to agree a valuation, or the court will appoint a valuer, which we both have to pay for.... Seems silly to me, he

Today I had a valuation done on our house..... as part of the 'financial disclosure' my solicitor asked for.....

The very nice lady from the estate agent walked around 'our' house, taking measurements.... saying "what a lovely house this is"... "this house will sell without a problem"........ usual stuff they say I imagine....

I didn't really 'feel' anything.............

She gave me the price that they would 'put it on the market for'..... (better than I expected)....

I didn't feel sad, angry, any of the emotions that one might expect.... considering I am being 'forced' to move out of 'our' home