Good morning my friends in Wiki land. I have been absent this week as things are now escalating out of control! I have had many tears today and they are for my fears! The only two words I can now use to describe my STBX are:- pure evil! Give me the strength my friends to get through this next week at least....and patti.p if you can spread some of that karma it would be most appreciated! Have a good day, each and every one of you! Take care for now FoS

Ive tried to keep this as short as possible (Didn't work) following on from my earlier blog I did text her to tell her not to bother coming over for my birthday because I only wanted people who I loved and trusted around me on that day, anyway she still turned up she told me she has got herself an apartment and would be moving in over this weekend, I tried to talk about the money situation etc. but she basically just swept that away saying me and my son will be OK for a few months!! I couldn’t help but raise my voice at one point when she was pretending to be "happy families" again I

It seems that Gingerbread, the organisation for single parents, has set up an email advice facility. You can ask for them to email you standard advice on essential subjects such as benefits and child support. You can find the facility by following this