today i am angry and upset

after being left after 22 years of marriage the husband who wont even speak to me or tell me why he left wants to put money into my bank account to clear his debts .

Debts in his name only that i only recently found out about with no name companies

he thinks i am stupid he does not want these people or me to know were he is but wants to keep the debt at my address i despair

his contact was a three line email well he can get lost

i am still struggling with why he left i believe there is another woman

i dont think he wants her to know about this money well tough

Please help.

I am usually an extremely strong person, I have had to be to survive, I don't cry when anyone is around as they need my strength during the day to see them through especially my daughter who is so kind and caring and offers me so much love.

I have waited until everyone is asleep and am now sat crying as I write, today I have been typing out my daughter Rachel's statement, she is 2nd respondant in my divorce as we have a property business together and to protect her half of them she has had to be joined, I tried negotiating with her dad so she wouldn't have to go through this but to

I feel sick - my head is pounding and most of all I never thought, he would do this to his children. Today I check my bank balance and have had to phone the csa. Why? because the payment was missing and my mortgage is due to be paid monday. After two phone calls I discover the reason the payment was missing because my ex, has given up work to claim benefits. Im paying the mortgage and without the csa payment, Im going to struggle - I think he has done this in order to force me to sell. I don't know whether or not I my head is going to explode or I want to be sick first and god only knows